Join Be Your Own Woman™Pastor • Author • Certified Coach • Brand & Ministry Mentor
I help women discover their identity, lead ministries, build faith-centered brands, and launch a unique online presence with confidence.
Stop carrying what
God didn’t assign.
Welcome, Sister
I’m Pastor Patricia Estella Lampkin—affectionately known as Pastor Pat. I am a pastor, bestselling author, certified professional coach, and the founder of Be Your Own Woman™.
My heart is for the woman who has poured into everyone else and is finally ready to make room for the woman God created her to be.
The Journey
Faith-filled guidance and practical encouragement for every season of becoming.
Release old labels and see yourself through the truth of God’s Word.
Gain clarity, recognize your gifts, and move confidently toward your calling.
Build healthy boundaries, lasting confidence, and momentum for your next chapter.
Pastor Pat’s Signature Coaching Program
Turn your God-given vision into a ministry, brand, digital product, and online presence you can confidently share with the world.
Clarify your calling, message, audience, and the ministry God has placed in your heart.
Create a clear brand identity and present yourself with confidence and consistency.
Build your professional website and establish a unique, credible online presence.
Develop and launch your first digital product based on your gifts, knowledge, and experience.
Create an online community where you can teach, encourage, serve, and grow with the people called to your message.
Learn how to turn your God-given idea into a practical faith-based app that encourages, teaches, and serves your community.
You have the vision. Now let’s build it.
Join the Be Your Own Woman™ Skool community for step-by-step guidance, coaching, practical tools, and sisterhood.
Join My Skool & Learn MoreA Life of Faith & Service
Coaching + Community + Practical Tools
Be Your Own Woman™ is my signature coaching program and Skool community for women ready to heal, lead, build, create, and launch. Your voice matters—and your God-given idea deserves a place in the world.